Day 8: Verona (Family Reunion) (Friday, May 22)
I woke up early this morning and went down to the lobby for breakfast.
It was nice to have some time alone to contemplate what today would hold: a
merging of my family with my Italian family. The last time I saw my relatives
was in 2019, but it was much longer for my guys (the older boys were in middle
school and Timothy in Kindergarten). This time I would be returning with my
entire family, now all grown up: one son a brand-new engineer, two sons now
married, and two lovely daughters-in-law. I had planned and longed for this
day, wanting to share Verona with my family and my family with Verona. And that
day was now. Today. I thought of my Nonna a lot.
It was still early, so I went walking around Piazza Bra. The
street cleaners ambled slowly up via Mazzini and the sun was glistening on the
wet cobblestones. A pigeon cooed gently atop a statue in Piazza Bra, a delivery
truck dropped off a crate of wine bottles to a restaurant kitchen, and I took
photos of the sun shining through the arches of the ancient amphitheater.
By mid-morning, everyone was up so we walked to Castel’ San
Pietro, a Romanesque fortress overlooking the city. We purchased a one-way
ticket for the funicular to take us to top where we walked from terrace to terrace
marveling at the magnificent views. Of course, we took many photos. Although I
have been to Castel San Pietro many times, it was nice to see it through the
eyes of others.
We walked back down and everyone scattered to explore and shop.
Joe, Timothy, and I sat in a restaurant in Piazza delle Erbe, enjoying a delicious
margherita pizza and watching the shoppers meander through the market stalls. Our
waiter was so charming and kept us so entertained that we just had to take a
photo with him. On the way back to the hotel, I stopped at a Bialetti store and
purchased a Moka pot designed by Dolce & Gabbana. I love my Moka pot.
Then, back to the hotel for showers to get ready for a big
family reunion. We had arranged a meeting spot, and when we arrived at the
appointed time there they were … my uncle, Silvio, and my cousin, Martha! Oh
the joy! All the girls rode with Silvio, while poor Martha had all the guys
(none of whom speak Italian). But she was a good sport!
Half an hour later we drove up a hill leading to my relatives’
home overlooking the valley. A huge welcome sign hung on il cancello
(the gate) through which my relatives came out to greet us. Oh my goodness the
joy! Hugs, kisses, introductions. More hugs and, yes, some tears. (In fact, I’m
teary just typing this.)
With the sun slowly setting, we enjoyed apperitivi in
Paola and Silvio’s garden. There were half a dozen conversations going on at
once, and the air was filled with laughter, a little English, a little Italian,
and a funny mixture of both. I was thrilled to finally meet my cousin Damiano’s
children (Lidia, Rebecca, and Elia). We took a group photo.
When it was time for dinner, we went to Tizi and Luciano’s
house where they had prepared a beautiful table complete with place cards featuring
different Verona landmarks. All eighteen of us sat around the table enjoying tortellini
and an assortment of cheeses, meats, breads, and pickled vegetables. There was
wine and beer and Fanta (because Fanta tastes better in Italy).
There was a most delicious homemade tiramisu made by my
cousin, Chiara.
We all sang happy birthday to my aunt Paola, met Chiara’s
pet snake, marveled at Luciano’s homemade guitar, laughed at Damiano’s stories,
talked all things Pokemon and Brain Rot with Lidia and Rebecca (I now know who Cappuccina
Ballerina is). There was even a hula hoop demonstration and my uncle, Luciano,
gave Timothy dating advice.
There were gifts for Lauren, Caroline, and me (bronze replicas
of the bronze doors from the church of San Zeno in Verona).
The evening was perfect in every way except that, unfortunately,
and like all good things, it came to an end. Our goodbyes were like our hellos
from earlier in the evening: Hugs, kisses, well wishes. More hugs and, yes,
tears.
A presto, la mia famiglia italiana!
Bacioni,
Maria, Joe, Timothy, Nicholas, Lauren, Jonathan, e Caroline















