Sunday, February 16, 2025

Speak to Me Sunday: Finding God in the Ordinary

 Once Upon a Time I signed up to work as a camp counselor in Savannah, Georgia during one of the hottest summers on record. My job would be working with older children, spearheading various programs, and playing the guitar during daily Mass.

On my first day on the job, however, my vision of sitting around bonfires and singing camp songs was shattered when we were informed that first we had to clean the camp facilities (dormitories, mess hall, kitchen, bathrooms, and classrooms) from top to bottom to make it ready for the campers.  You can imagine the mold, spider webs, nests, and dirt which had accumulated since the previous summer, and we had several days of hard work ahead of us. Before long I was standing in a bathroom stall holding a toilet brush (and my breath) and decidedly grumpy about the whole thing. The summer ahead no longer shined so brightly.

But later that night, as I read quietly while the cicadas droned outside, I realized that grumpiness and bad attitude are not only exhausting, but hard work. I was reminded of Catherine Marshall's book, A Man Called Peter, in which she tells the story of her husband, Peter Marshall, who came to this country as a poor, Scottish immigrant but who eventually became Chaplain of the United States Senate. During the course of his life Peter wrote some truly wonderful sermons, but there was one in particular I was thinking about that night in Savannah: The importance of finding God in the ordinariness of our daily lives.

Peter truly believed it was important "to make the distinction between worship and work and play less sharp", and that we should seek God in our kitchen, on the playground, and in our typewriter. He wrote that our lives would have absolutely no meaning if we weren't able to see God in the mundane, day-to-day chores that make up our lives; that sometimes what we need most "is the God of the humdrum... the commonplace . . . the everyday."

That next morning, as I faced yet another day of cleaning bathrooms, I took inspiration from Peter Marshall’s sermon and would try to look for God in those dirty, smelly, disgusting camp bathrooms.

So I prayed for the grace to do this job willingly and with a joyful heart. I gathered my cleaning supplies and wandered through a small auditorium where I found an old record player and ONE scratchy record -- Louis Armstrong singing It's a Wonderful World -- and set it up in the hallway outside the bathrooms.

I listened to that record over and over again at full volume as I scrubbed those toilets. I sang along. My fellow counselors then joined in. We scrubbed those toilets, laughed, talked about everything and nothing, and danced wearing rubber gloves on our hands and waving toilet brushes in the air.

And there, in those muggy, dirty camp bathrooms, we were insanely happy.

We had found God in the humdrum and mundane. We had found Him in the ordinary.




Thursday, February 13, 2025

February Catch-Up

 

The No-Birthday Month

Every February I write an introspective post to commemorate my birthday. But this month my birthday came and went without a blip. I was recovering from Vascular surgery (left leg), and not only was Joe out of town but even MY PARENTS were out of town. So, I spent a quiet birthday, holed up inside the house during what was a blustery week. My birthday meal included Chicken Salad Chick and a box of Milk Duds for dessert (do not judge). But it was a good birthday with some alone time to think, read, and watch the last season of Peaky Blinders.

Yikes, though. Those Peaky Blinders.


Babysitting

I also spent my birthday babysitting the work crew replacing our backyard fence (which was destroyed due to the hurricane). What was supposed to take 2-3 days instead took TWO WEEKS. The crew would come, work two hours, then leave for lunch and not come back until the next day. One day Joe had the idea of providing them with lunch, thus encouraging them to stay and (maybe) work longer. So, he treated them to Chick-fil-A—food, drinks, super-sized fries—the works. The crew thanked him, ate their lunch, and thirty minutes later disappeared until the next day. Joe was hopping mad.

New fence? Check. What's next: sod and general landscaping

 


Book Recommendation

This week our Book Club discussed Allen Levi’s book, Theo of Golden.

Stop what you are doing right now. Go. Read the book. One of the best I have read in a long time. It will restore your hope in humanity. Everyone has a Theo inside of them.

 


Something new

Thanks to a daughter-in-law who introduced me to the game, and to a class I took with some friends, I am learning to play Mahjong. Makes you think, does Mahjong.

I am also taking German lessons via the Duo language app. Hallo. Ich heiße Maria. Ich Komme aus Augusta, eine stadt in Georgia.  



The Reason for the German Lessons

The 2025 Girls’ Trip to Italy and Alpine Europe! Twenty-six women have signed on for this grand adventure. A few highlights: a Mozart concert and dinner, a train ride on the Bernina express, a cruise on Lake Como, and a visit to a Neuschwanstein and Hohenschwangau castles. There are a few spots left. Want to come along? 

(Photo: Lake Como, Italy. On Day 7 we will be cruising along its beautiful shores.)