“I’m excited, and a little sad. But we’ll still have fun, right?” Timothy, about our first Masters spring break without his older brothers." April 2, 2016
On my desk is a blue folder with MASTERS written on the tab.
On the inside cover is a list of all the
places where we have vacationed during Masters week. In those early years, when
the boys were young, we went to Florida a lot. Because we were still confined
to a school schedule, it made sense to select locations within driving distance (Florida, South Carolina) and save the longer trips (Italy, New York, California) for the summertime.
So many spring breaks over the years. So many memories. So
many stories.
But Masters week does not correspond with college spring
breaks, so as time went by first Nicholas, and then Jonathan, were no longer
free to travel with us. Our spring breaks went from five people, to four, then
to three. We still had Timothy for
several more years.
But then he left for college, too, so this year,
for the first time ever, there was no one sitting in
the back seat of the car when we backed down the driveway. There was no one to forget their swimsuit or ask to
go to the bathroom just half an hour after leaving home. We did not have to
bring car snacks or remind everyone to pack their toothbrush.
The morning we left, a Facebook Memory reminded me of Timothy’s quote
from so many years ago. I read it aloud to Joe but changed it to reflect our
New Normal of a Masters week without kids.
“I’m excited, and a lot sad. But we’ll still have fun, right?” Me to Joe, about our first Masters spring break without the boys.
In the end, our Spring Break 2023 will be remembered for two
reasons: it was the first Masters week without the boys, and it was the first
time our spring break was interrupted. When we received the news that Joe’s 95-year-old father
was in the hospital, we left Tennessee after just three days and drove 10 hours to Virginia Beach where we spent the rest of the week.
It was the spring break that was and wasn’t. It was a spring break without our boys. But it was all good. We went on three beautiful hikes before leaving Tennessee, we were able to spend time with Joe's father and his siblings, and Papa rallied.
Here's to next April!
1999 Orlando
2000 Orlando
2001 Tennessee/Missouri
2002 Orlando
2003 Myrtle Beach
2004 Palm Coast, FL
2005 Hilton Head
2006 Orlando
2007 Myrtle Beach
2008 Orlando
2009 Palm Coast, FL
2010 Washington DC
2011 Orlando
2012 Palm Coast, FL
2013 Orlando
2014 Myrtle Beach
2015 Hilton Head
2016 Orlando
2017 Virginia Beach/Myrtle Beach
2018 Orlando
2019 New Orleans
2020 Blowing Rock, NC (delayed until November because of Covid)
2021 Gulfport, MS
2022 Sedona, AZ
2023 Crossville, TN/ Virginia Beach

1 comment:
What wonderful memories you have! Cathy
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